Finding Strength After Losing a Spouse: How To Keep Your Husband's Memory Alive

Grief is incredibly complex, and it can feel overwhelming after suddenly losing a spouse. If you’ve recently lost your husband, understand there is no perfect way to process your grief, but utilizing helpful strategies can help you move through this difficult time. One essential task is to keep your husband’s memory alive for your children. LYLG explores how you can do just that:

1. Create a Memory Book or Photo Album 

Making a memory book or photo album is an excellent way to keep your husband's memory alive for yourself and your kids. Your collection could include pictures of happy times together and stories about the things he enjoyed doing or his favorite hobbies. You could also include some of his best quotes, funny anecdotes, and memorabilia from special occasions (e.g., trips, holidays, events, etc.). You might want to write down any advice he gave your children so they can look back on it as they grow older.

2. Talk About Him Often

It might be painful at first, but it’s essential to talk openly with your kids about their father and his life. Speaking about him in conversations around the house will prevent his memory from fading away with each passing day.

Try sharing stories of happy memories that involve him; these kinds of positive discussions can help you all heal together while still feeling connected to him. Further, talking about him will help ensure that his legacy lives on through those he left behind, especially if you have young ones with limited memories of their dad.

3. Encourage Your Children To Remember Him Too

Make sure your kids have ways to honor their father’s memory. Perhaps you could make a yearly donation in his name or participate in activities he enjoyed, such as running marathons or playing sports. 

Another idea is to plant trees in his name or dedicate an area outside in the garden; you could use this area for reflection and quiet contemplation of fond memories shared together as a family unit before he passed. Giving your children outlets for remembering their dad can be therapeutic for them and you.

4. Be a Role Model

It’s more critical than ever to be a role model for your children after losing a loved one. Starting a business is one way to demonstrate resilience and strength after a major life event; it can also help you set an example of hard work and dedication amid adversity.

Having an entrepreneurial ambition can create financial stability for your family for now and in the future. You and your kids can see this new venture as a way to show others that you’re determined to turn something difficult into something positive, inspiring your children (and yourself) to use their creativity and resilience for good.

Here is a short list of steps to take when launching your venture:

  • Research different business models and decide what’s most achievable for your current situation.
  • Create a business plan that describes your company’s goals and strategies. 
  • Look out for resources such as grants or seed funding specifically created for women entrepreneurs.
  • Ensure that whatever you decide is right for you and your family — for the short and long term.
  • Launch and promote your new venture. Digital marketing is a must these days, but business cards are still an effective marketing channel, especially in local markets. Here's a possible solution if you want to quickly create professional business cards.


Losing a spouse might seem unbearable at first, but finding strength and comfort through coping techniques like keeping their memory alive can make the journey easier over time. Remember the methods above as you and your kids seek to create a new life together. And most importantly, remember that you’re not alone; try to surround yourselves with family members, friends, and others who can provide much-needed support in the years ahead. 

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